I'm Sick of Being Called a Tease

I'm sick of being called a tease. The boys at school always say that and I don't get it. I'm not easy, I don't sleep around, in fact, I've never even had a boyfriend. Why are they so mean? I just want to be good and not mess up sexually, so why do they treat me like I'm a tease?

While it's good to want to be pure and not mess up sexually, it sounds like you might be missing the mark when it comes to your sexuality. See, staying pure is more than just not having sex. It's also watching what you do to the thought life of the guys around you. If they are calling you a tease, that means that in some way or another, you are teasing them - taunting them into thinking they can get you sexually - but then you reject them. And that's not purity.

There are 2 ways that you could be teasing boys. One is by flirting with them so much that it leads them to think you want them sexually. And the other is just by how you dress. Dressing sexy can tease them because how you dress tells others how to think about you. And the mere fact that you dress "sexy" says you are sexual. Even though it may not be true, that's how it looks to others. So if you want to stop being called a tease, then you've got to simmer down on the sexual innuendo. No more flirting as if you're a sexual girl and no more dressing like one. It's time for an image makeover. Get into your closet and your vocabulary and get rid of everything that hints at your sexuality. In other words, lose the low-cut tops, tight pants, short minis, belly button ring, tongue ring - anything that would suggest you are ready for sex.